Does anyone else feel sad at Christmas? I usually am having a great holiday spending time with family, visiting friends, and having time off of work... then it happens. I feel sad. Down. Just as the sadness hits for the year, I it strikes me, "I felt sad last Christmas too!" I try to hide the sadness. I try to put on a fake smile so that others won't notice. Why do I feel sad??? It always hits immediately after or during the gift exchange. Some of the proposed mechanisms for this "bad" feeling are discussed below: 1. I may feel guilty for getting expensive things, when others have little or none. 2. I know that I feel bad when I find myself not liking a gift that was given to me. Sometimes the reason I don't like the gift is because I think its ugly... and I know that the person who bought it for me thinks it's wonderful... This makes me feel horrible, I feel as if I am pretentious, elitist or a snob. Though to have different tastes is only natural